Guangzhou & Cantonese Etiquette
(广州文化与礼仪)
Welcome to Guangzhou! Understanding a few local social norms, especially those rooted in Cantonese culture, will go a long way in your interactions.
Speaking the Lingo: Basic Cantonese Phrases
While Mandarin is widely spoken, using a few simple Cantonese phrases will be warmly received.
- Hello: Nei Hou (你好)
- Thank You (for a service): M'goi (唔该). Use this when a waiter serves you, a cashier helps you, or to get someone's attention.
- Thank You (for a gift): Do Ze (多谢). Use this when someone gives you a gift or pays you a formal compliment.
- Excuse Me / Sorry: M'hou Yi Si (唔好意思)
Dining & Yum Cha Etiquette (饮茶礼仪)
Yum Cha (drinking tea and eating dim sum) is the heart of Guangzhou's culinary culture.
- Tea Tapping (Kou Tou): When someone pours tea for you, tap your bent index and middle fingers on the table a few times. This is a silent, universally understood "thank you" gesture in Cantonese culture.
- Requesting a Tea Refill: If your teapot is empty, simply leave the lid ajar. The staff will see this and come to refill it with hot water.
- Serving Others First: It is polite to pour tea for others at the table, especially elders, before filling your own cup.
- Use Serving Chopsticks: Always use the provided serving chopsticks (公筷 - gōng kuài) to take food from communal dishes, not your personal ones.
- Chopstick Rule: Never stick your chopsticks upright in a bowl of rice. This resembles incense for the deceased and is a serious taboo.
General Social Customs
- Saving Face (面子 - Miànzi): The concept of "face" (reputation, dignity) is crucial. Avoid causing public embarrassment or direct confrontation. Be polite, humble, and indirect.
- Respect for Elders: Always show respect to older people. Let them go first, offer them a seat, and greet them politely.
Bargaining Culture (砍价文化)
Where to Bargain:
Where NOT to Bargain:
How to do it: Keep it friendly! Start by offering about 50% of the asking price. If the vendor doesn't agree, smiling and politely walking away is a powerful tactic—they may call you back with a better offer.
Tipping
Tipping is not part of the culture in Guangzhou and is not expected in restaurants, taxis, or for most services. Trying to tip can sometimes cause confusion.